Am I a horrible mother for spanking my stubborn daughter during potty training? - i got a spanking from his mother
Please read .. The first is my daughter turned to 3, and that is semi-formed pot, but it was a struggle. She is stubborn and sometimes provocative when it comes to the potty. I started this the reward system and be very patient. Sometimes it's just so ridiculous. Yesterday I did something I probably should not, in fact, was beaten. I realized that I went to the toilet and asked if she was willing to go the toilet and she said it best "I can use the Bad Mom" and then went to shit his pants. So I took her into the bathroom and dirty trousers from him and told him it was a big girl and that was not acceptable, then more than tripled to Hiney slapping. When I return, probably Wuld not yet, but I'm not sure if its bad, because there are no wet or soiled pants there. I feel bad for spanking for a topic such as bathing, make me a bad mother?
Friday, February 12, 2010
I Got A Spanking From His Mother Am I A Horrible Mother For Spanking My Stubborn Daughter During Potty Training?
15 comments:
Actually, yes. I usually say never, but it takes patience. Potty training should be based on positive reinforcement.
"Spanking is a less useful tool in teaching a child to the bathroom proved striking. Can lead to physical problems can use the toilet, and renew the education beat. Also cause children to be desirable to hide or to lie Pot -- similar behavior, denying parents the opportunity to leave bad habits before they begin.
Strong desire for children are a joy for parents.
This is the worst thing I ever do, or its finest hour.
You may have the privilege of dirt deliberately removed when you think it was really a challenge, I think.
Finally, a light but firm approach better than spanking, especially around education.
Strong desire for children are a joy for parents.
This is the worst thing I ever do, or its finest hour.
You may have the privilege of dirt deliberately removed when you think it was really a challenge, I think.
Finally, a light but firm approach better than spanking, especially around education.
No matter what people think. Hitting is, unless you have an open hand in the ass, and the child is dressed legally. I work in a kindergarten, and all the courses that we have, we learned that hitting is legal. This, at least in Jersey. Not sure if this is something the country. Perhaps you were a little exaggerated, but the father is perfect every day?
This would probably not, but I'm sure your daughter will soon forget that, not years later recalling it. Also note that only 3 and may not be ready for training. You need the father is not ready.
You do not spank for "an accident, he fought for the challenge. There is a difference between the two. Although you should not be punished for accidents of any kind, there is nothing to hurt your lashes for refusing to do what they said said (), especially when she says "no".
Not a bad mother, but certainly do not need a spanking. Try to talk to him in his place, I know it's hard to do, but spanking is not helpful layers.
Good luck, everyone slips a beating or 2 for no reason at times :-)
It is not a bad mother ... honestly, depends if it was an accident then he should not be lost ... But when you know you have it (with the intention of my children do and say on purpose, I will not make my pants), and then it hit me in the ass by it, in my opinion
House training is a challenge, is not it? I spank your child in order to prevent the use of only the potty. Just do more.
My answer?
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Kicking, screaming, or together any kind of punishment during toilet training May, to take the child afraid of the toilet. went into the bathroom, then got a beating. it might been thinking about, but I go to the bathroom.
I think the only important thing is to say here that alll of us have emphasized the problems .. Especially as a child .. Your DIFI is on the pot is out of this DIFI look at the other side of the road .. b4 various
Some children develop a phobia of potty training .. About this, what is installed or pressure normally .. discapline these phobias and stress.
He reacts to her daughter so .. and then feel guilty .. U-test are so perplexed and confused to see her ..
Yes uve fear or obedience of his daughter to be successful and maybe ur proud of the fact that it works .. not proud of how it works .. Heart, but both need to grow more .. They feel loved and secure ..
Do not tell him to harm himself or others .. Beautiful .. .. Respect
Not what I say or u'll be hurt again .. to understand what I mean?
No offense to my reply .. I say this hope u'll walk the same feeling a lil more enlightened and inspired to a better woman .. obviously very sensitive to u ur daughter and the lesson learned.
But the fact that U have this question tells me ur not a bad mother .. a person here who said .. is probably not a mother .. and if .. You might want to look in the mirror and face their sins befor showing to others.
Peace.
I know you probably drive a few feathers with this one. Do not feel guilty. You're not a bad mother. People take the blows that out of context. I grew up and had two children with beatings. I was very good and my children. But in his case that what is being done is done. His reaction was disappointment. Children are often at the borders. You can draw your attention to something else wanted to have or just wait for time to tell you. I have two kids potty trained. I have done before. Especially when you know that you can be in a position, you know. One can try is to take his advice to stop swimming. But unfortunately, this experience and return to the wage system. Introduction big girl panties and makes them something special to use them. Encourage you not to mess it. Praise it was kept clean. If she has an accident, make him understand that this is not so is like a big girl toilet handles. It will be good. As for his age, yes it is completely ready to wear diapers. Don & #039; t buy that crap, they are not ready. If you can walk, talk, dress and feed themselves, they are prepared. My children were 18 months and 2 1 / 2. Good luck.
It's terrible!
Children are children.
that toilet training can not be the first or second, or whatever, but you have to give them a chance, instead of pre-formed child abuse ..
her daughter a chance.
Education is not always a "brilliant" and "Sunshine" thing.
I wanted a boy, well, you have a.
Try your anger into something else.
apologize to his daughter. Monkey See Monkey Do mean in the next 2 years or daycare, do not do a person something? and not be surprised if he hit "Hiney" 3-times available.
Wake up, Mom.
You just need a little more patient .. Imagine .. it is a child and they are 3, so that you understand what was happening around him and tried to assert their independence .. And then there is a person who is driving has to do with things .. You must meet once or twice, but you're a person wants to do things his way .. Why trade up .. They are not happy and the other person is not happy, but it's the only time you can say "no" .. Yes, it is not nice .. I suggest you breathe deeply and start .. Meanwhile, demanded money and then invest in a book "a blessing from a scraped knee - see further than the title and believe me, it's the best reading you need at this point in your life .. I was in your situation, but the Book me daily from the bottom of fighting .. Now I am not connected with this book, the author or editor, I recommend to you a little and used to buy .. for me because I do not have time to read it to CD, and listen in the car have tr ..and .. They support the current issue of the sphincter and future struggles, as well ..
Hitting a child is child abuse! You do not have a bad mother, although she may not have been the right response to the situation, your child will be okay and he probably learned it in the pants brings the pain and may try the potty. I also believe that hitting is preferable not to punish your child at all, because the children tend to be more respectful to their parents when they are punished, and show that you care! However, the children should not be abused. Note that you are not a bad mother!
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